Grief is confronting. Feelings of pain, loss and sadness - that you can’t just put a lid on. The experience is different for different people. The amount of time the journey takes, and the intensity too. There’s an understanding that you need to ‘let it happen’. But how do you deal with it? What do you say? When will this relent? How does God fit in this picture? The questions are many, and the conversations often few. Andy and Mark wade through grief like treacle, as they talk about being real in the face of loss.